There is a simple thing that guys may do to raise their confront on approaching women and meeting women.
If you feel uncomfortable in any situation, it means that you are approaching this situation on too high a gradient. Rather than runing away from the situation, reduce the gradient.
What are gradients? Gradients are just like steps on a ladder. If you try to go to the top of the ladder on your first step, it will be difficult to accomplish, and you will not succeed. If you keep trying it again and again you will start building up a complex about failing, and soon not try anymore.
If you try to jump up five or six steps in your first attempt, it will also be scary -- not necessarily impossible but scary. And the probability is that if you have no experience jumping that high you will fail .
The best approach is to take the initial step and then advance one-step at a time. It is the most comfortable way to climb a ladder.
When I was a young man I would observe a woman I was drawn to and thought I had to tell her how much I liked her straight away. Well that was jumping up way too many steps on the ladder. I didn't even know her.
The initial step is a simple "Hi" along with a smile. Then keep walking. Get comfortable just saying "Hi" to girls. Then as the next step when they say "Hi" back or ask you a question, answer the question, or make a comment about something that she has her interest on to continue the conversation. For example, if you are in a book shop and she is looking at a book on cooking, ask her what she thinks of that book. Is it any good?
Conversations develop naturally. Do not push it. Get to know her before you decide that you like her.
Obviously, there is a whole lot more to it, but these are excellent basics to start with. If you are using gradients eventually you will learn how to meet women.
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